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Swingers club etiquette

If you’re planning to visit a swingers club in London, and you’re unsure what to expect or what the swingers club etiquette is, then you might need to read this guide so you have a pleasant experience and prepare yourself for a drama free night of swinging fun.

Visiting a London swingers club for the first time can be a daunting experience if you’re not sure what the etiquette of a club is, it can be quite confusing as well. But it doesn’t ned to be if you are well prepared.

The following guidelines and club etiquette comes from personal experience gained from hundreds of visits to swingers clubs and swingers parties in London, and is only meant as a guide, you will need to decide between yourselves on your own boundaries.

  • Discuss your boundaries & Rules– Visiting a swingers club is not an experience that you want to go through if you’re not both 100% happy with the situation. We all have doubts, but as long as you talk it over and decide to leave if one of you is uncomfortable, then it should be a fun experience.
  • Ask about club rules – On arrival to the club, let the member of staff on the door know this is your first time, they’ll generally ask anyway but better to make sure, and ask to be shown where all the facilities are located, and what the club rules are.
  • Get changed and grab a drink – Once you know your way around, get changed into your towel or shorts for the guys and either a towel or something sexy for the ladies and head to the bar area. Many clubs don’t sell alcohol so you will need to take your own, but make sure you don’t have too much other wise the night will be wasted.
  • Watch and learn – Once you’re comfortable with a drink, sit back and watch the social interaction for a while, see which couples you like and which ones to avoid.
  • Time to play – Once you identify your targets and built the confidence to say Hello, walk up to  them and introduce yourself. You will most likely get invited to one of the play rooms, but make sure you all know each others limits and restrictions prior swinging with another couple.